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Thriving in 2020: Self-Care IS NOT Selfish

Did you end 2019 sputtering over the finish line out of gas? If you accomplished your 2019 goals did you have the energy to even celebrate your victories?

Take a hard look at what your goals are for 2020. Learning, striving, giving, loving, and pushing limits are key parts of a fulfilled and successful life, but don't forget in order to grow you also need nourishment.

You can't give what you don't have. You can't care for others as best you can if you haven't cared for yourself.

Did you factor in caring for yourself as one of your 2020 goals?

Do your goals span a variety of life facets such as family, relationships, health (physical, mental, and spiritual), as well as finances and career? We often get so focused on making more money and advancing careers that we forget the rest. But the rest is what we will truly care about in the end. Advancing careers and making more money are just meant to facilitate parts of the rest - travel, making memories, special date nights - not the point, but the means to the end.

So many of us are out of whack. Not nourishing our souls and growing the parts of our lives that truly matter in the end. Does it matter that you have millions if you haven't cared for your body and are confined to a sick bed? Does it matter if there is no one to enjoy life with?

Revisit your 2020 goals. Do you see empty calories on the list when you look at them through this lens? Is there something nutrient-rich you could replace it with?

Make 2020 your year to thrive! What are you going to do differently in 2020? Share in the comments below :)

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